Unread post by Sam W » Sat Oct 14, pm Hi Lollipop, The two most common reasons for painful insertion are being tense and not having enough lube even if you're aroused and wet, you often need to add even more lube. You can read more about the reasons for painful insertion here and see if any of them apply to your situation: From OW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse When you're trying to insert your fingers, are you aroused mentally as well as physically? Unread post by Lollipop » Sat Oct 14, pm Thank you for a really fast reply and a great article.
And yes, I do feel aroused mentally too, especially with my boyfriend. I actually agree it's all probably about lubrication and tension. Do you have any advice about that? With lubrication, you'll want to get some store-bought lube if you don't already have some. When it comes to relieving tension, that depends what helps you relax.
It could be something like taking a bath or reading something that arouses you, or if you're with a partner having them massage you or touch you in a way that helps you release tension. Too, sometimes tension is coming from the worries you have about being sexual, be that worries about your body or worries about the risks of the activity you're doing.
What should I do? Friction and pressure from fingering or oral sex can cause irritation in the sensitive genital area. But itching and redness that lasts for a couple of weeks also could be a sign of an infection that could get worse if it isn't treated.
So you should get checked out by a doctor or nurse practitioner. Quick Hide. Fingering and Fisting Fingering and fisting can be a good way to give someone pleasure, but not everyone is into it. What are fingering and fisting? It is called fisting because once inside, the hand is usually curled into a fist shape. Who does fingering and fisting? Fingering and fisting are done by people of all genders and sexual identities. Is fingering and fisting dangerous? Fingering and fisting are low risk activities when in comes to STIs and can be very enjoyable.
For example, cervicitis is the inflammation of your cervix. If your cervix is inflamed or irritated, it may bleed more easily after sexual activity. Likewise, some STIs may cause spotting between periods that you may believe is blood from being fingered.
Chlamydia, for example, commonly causes spotting between periods. Rarely, a cut inside your vagina may need medical attention from your doctor.
You may need medication to help the scratch or tear heal and reduce your risk for an infection. This way, the scratch or tear has time to heal. If you begin bleeding after being fingered and you experience pain, discomfort, or itching in the days immediately following the activity, make an appointment to see your doctor.
These symptoms may also be a sign of another condition, such as an STI. The risk of getting or transmitting any STI while being fingered is low. However, you can take steps to reduce both your risk for infection and your risk of bleeding. Ask your partner to wash their hands before engaging in this activity. They can then cover their hands with a condom or disposable glove.
This reduces the chance of bacteria from their hands or under their fingernails getting into a cut or scratch and developing into an infection. Shop for condoms and disposable gloves. Likewise, ask your partner to cut or trim their nails before fingering you.
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